What does stress feel like? There are many more physical symptoms to stress than a lot of people realise. Here’s how to identify them, and what to do when they appear.
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Stress is a condition that most of us will experience at some point in our lives. A small amount can be useful to motivate us at home or work.
But if you feel constantly overwhelmed, this exposure to long-term (chronic) stress can have a real impact on your physical and mental health.
You probably know how it feels to be stressed all too well. Your breath might quicken, perhaps your heart starts to pound, or your mouth feels dry, your muscles might tense and your hands are weirdly cold but sweaty.
What one person finds stressful another person might not. We all perceive the world differently, which means we all have different definitions of stress. This means some of us are more perceptible to stress than others.
When we feel stressed, it releases stress hormones which trigger the “fight or flight” response. This is designed to help our bodies handle stress, but long-term exposure can cause mental and physical illnesses.
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Fight or flight describes the body's automatic response to danger. It's thought that this evolved hundreds of thousands of years ago as a way to help us react to life-threatening situations. Because it's an automatic response, it's often triggered without us realising it - or being able to prevent it.
In the presence of danger, our eyes and/or ears send information to the amygdala, the area of the brain which is responsible for processing our emotions. The amygdala sends a distress signal to an area at the base of the brain called the hypothalamus, which communicates with the body via the nervous system.
The hypothalamus activates the sympathetic nervous system. This sends signals to the adrenal glands, which then produce hormones including adrenaline, norepinephrine, and cortisol into the bloodstream. As these hormones circulate through the body, they trigger a range of physical changes.
Some of the physical symptoms of stress you may experience include:
If the brain perceives the threat as ongoing, the hypothalamus releases more hormones. These act on the adrenal glands, making them release more cortisol and leaving the body in a continued state of alert.
When the brain believes the threat is over, it reduces cortisol levels. The hypothalamus also activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which dampens the stress response.
Sometimes, a stress response can be useful. It can boost our awareness in stressful situations and help us cope with emergencies.
But if it happens too often, or for too long, the content release of stress hormones can lead to physical health problems including:
Long-term stress can also lead to emotional and mental health symptoms, such as:
It’s incredibly important to listen to our bodies, especially if we’re experiencing any of the symptoms mentioned above. Stress, and the symptoms of stress, must be taken seriously. If they’re not, as we’ve seen, it can cause real issues for our mental and physical health.
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It’s natural for us to only focus on what we haven’t achieved each day. But it’s important to sit back and think about what you have achieved. This will help to improve your mindset over time.
Doing so will narrow your view and help you feel more in control of short and long-term tasks.
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